My parents were my first teachers of communication. Older people were to be addresses as mam or sir. When giving a handshake you are to give a firm handshake and to look the person in the eye. I was taught to speak with clarity and not to interrupt or speak over other people during a conversation. There were no talking back to your parents or elders or there would be consequences. There were little diversity in our community with a Caucasian population over 80% and African Americans 19%. Yet my parents taught me to treat everyone with respect even if someone disrespected you.
My parents did not raise me and my siblings to be racist, but we were taught to stand up for what is right. My father taught me how to be a man and to be respectful to women. My mother taught me not to rely on others but to make my own way in life. I was taught not to look down on people, but I was to help people if the resources were available. There were no phones allowed in the kitchen during dinner. My parents were strong and assertive, and yet they both took care of their ailing parents while providing for us at the same time.
I model communication skills from both of my parents. I let peoples personalities and character traits decide if I will allow that person into my inner circle. I don look down on people. I say hello to strangers. My colleagues are treated with respect on the job. I agree to disagree with them, and yet we work together for the good of our students because their education comes first. We share different teaching strategies, and we respect each other.
Larry,
ReplyDeleteI love that you have taken what your parents have taught you and use it not only in your personal life, but professional as well. As a parent, I know how effective it can be to successfully teach your children these concepts of respecting others, how to respond to adults, and making the best with resources provided. We have a lot of similar aspects in terms of our upbringing! I agree that parents are the first teachers and I was taught to always have respect for others and to give to those in need. I remember when my mother was down to her last dollar, she would still give from the heart, not expecting anything in return. Thank you for sharing about your family.
Jessica,
ReplyDeleteOur parents teaches us so much, and both of them were my best friends because I knew that I could always talk to them. The example about your mother that is love and the true character of a strong woman.